How do you know that Law of attraction is working out for you? What are the signs? Are there any signs at all? If I don’t see the signs, does it mean that it is not working or that I am doing something wrong?
This are the most common questions when people start to implement Law of attraction methods and techniques. I will try to answer them so this can be some sort of guideline for all of you.
I will start with the most common question which is:
What are the signs that the Law of attraction is working out for me?
First we must clarify if there even are any signs that law of attraction is working out for you. We must understand that not everyone experiences this process the same. Every person’s journey is different and everyone implements the techniques differently and deals with daily struggles different, so it only makes sense that the signs and experiences vary from one individual to another.
It would be great if there were these set, unmistakable signs that everyone could easily recognise, like cosmic notifications that your manifestation is on it’s way to manifest in your life. So you could feel comfortable that you are doing everything right and that the big turn around in your life is just to become true. The thing is that if you are truly in sync with the universe you will know, but you have just started transforming the way you think and you are most probably not there yet. There are signs, but we must listen to them and in order to listen and to hear we must be in sync with our selves and the universe and there is no manual for that. You will have to figure that out for yourself.
The other problem is that the changes don’t happen overnight. The entire process is gradual and subtle. It is like watching grass to grow. We all know that it is growing but if we try to see it grow we won’t see it. You notice the change once it is obvious but you cannot force yourself to see it immediately.
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Our brains are wired that we are always seek confirmation in what we are doing. We need to see some proof that what we are doing is working and we are not just spending time on something that is not working. And this is the biggest problem for many people as believing is the foundation of the entire process. You cannot go into this with an attitude “I will try it out if it works”. With a mindset like that you will definitely fail. The entire philosophy of the Law of attraction is that your thoughts become reality and what you think manifests for you. So if you start with doubts you are bound to fail as your doubts will manifest for you.
Now that we realised that not everything we experience is the same as other people on the same journey experience and that the entire process is complex and dependent on how we are dealing with it, we can list and explain the most common signs people are experiencing.
You will feel and be happier
Once things will start moving towards your desired state you will feel happier as you know that you are one step closer to your ultimate goal. When we feel good, or at least better, most of the time, we are aligned with all the things we want that will make us feel those same good feelings. We see the better part in everything, our way of thinking becomes more optimistic and that optimism attracts the good energy and feeds on the good energy.
Our state of mind and how we are feeling about ourselves and our surroundings determines everything. When we are able to start feeling better about getting what we want, the resistance that is blocking us diminishes, the trust builds up, the need to figure out ‘how’ is weakens, and that is the combination we need to achieve for our manifestation.
We might not be feeling good and in tune with the universe all the time, but we must observe our feelings and try to guide them in the right direction. Try to feel happy and see the positive side of everything. Even if something bad happens try to respond in a positive way. If someone is mean to you, try to understand that he or she probably has a really bad day and is behaving like that because he or she is unhappy. That has nothing to do with you and it really shouldn’t be the reason that you have a bad day now. If it’s raining enjoy the rain, if you are sweating enjoy the heat. Enjoy the little things we miss every day because we take them for granted. Once you realise the importance of how you feel and how that affects you life you will understand that negative emotions are only damaging you. We cannot control everything that happens to us but we can control how we react to the things that happen to us.
Everything is easier if we are feeling good. Even the smallest obstacle has the potential to stop us if we are not feeling good about ourselves. And we can move mountains if we are happy and self confident. This is a self-reinforcing cycle. The happier you are the better everything seems you make better progress, you become more successful and that makes you even happier. If you are feeling down, everything seems harder, you achieve less and that is bringing you down even more. And the easiest thing we can change in this cycle is the way we feel. You cannot become successful immediately so waiting for it may not be the best idea, but you can immediately change how you feel. It may not be the easiest thing to do, especially if you are having a bad period in your life, but believe me when I say that you can change the way you feel at any time and instantly and that will break the self-reinforcing downward spiral you are riding on. It is a well studied subject that you can measurably increase you pain threshold just by thinking on a happy moment or a happy place in your mind. People have withstood torture with this method. So believe me when I say you can change the way you feel right now.
You will think that the world is crumbling down on you
So you just had that amazing revelation, that you can change everything and bend reality all you have to do is just believe and it will happen. Than you have a bad day and everything seems to go against you and you start questioning everything. In order for things to change, things have to change and every change causes some noise. Don’t worry, this is just a sign that you are turning the ship around and that is why it is tilting, shaking and not moving anywhere.
All this negative energy was shaping your reality and now that you have ‘seen the light’ and changed direction, it all needs to come up to get you where you really want to be.
Regularly Seeing And Hearing About What You Want
All of a sudden the entire world is talking about the things that are close to manifest for you. You will see signs everywhere. Sometimes it will seem overwhelming but don’t be scared, this is just a sign you are moving in the right direction. One might say that everyone sees more of the things they are focusing on, but the experience get’s more intensive in the period of manifestation.
Almost there but not what you were asking for
You can finally see real progress and things are starting to manifest for you. You get a new job offer, new business opportunity, you find a great house where you want to live or you meet a wonderful person and you think to yourself, this is it, it is happening. But than you realise that the job is not so perfect, the business opportunity is not what you were looking for, that magical house is above you budget and mr. or mrs. Perfect is not so perfect. What now? Are you to picky? No, this is just the Universe giving you options and it is on you to decide what you want to do with them. Please don’t think, the Universe gave me this opportunity and I have to take it as this is my destiny. The universe gives you options and you should only follow what makes you feel right. If it doesn’t feel right, don’t go for it. Things like that just make it easier for you to decide and realise what is that you actually desire.
I hope this post helped you understand things a bit better so you will have less doubts when things might not seem as they are. You must also understand that everything takes time. Rome wasn’t built in a day and so can you not expect the change to come over night. The Universe will guide you, you just have to let go of all fears, doubts and negative thoughts and good things will come to you.