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How to find out what is your passion and you want to do in your life is one of the hardest things to figure out in your life.

It is not easy, period.

There is no quick way or magic formula that would tell you “your passion is to be an astronaut”.

Some people are extremely lucky to figure this out for themselves early in their lives. Some people just know and they pursue the same goal from early ages and if they put in the hard work they eventually get to where they want to be.

The reality for most people however is different, most people don’t know exactly what they want to do and what exactly is their passion.

Just to clarify, I am not talking about passion for video games but passion for doing something productive that can also be a valid career choice.

And yes playing video games is a valid career choice for some people, but the number of those people is really really small and they have to extremely good at it. Being so extremely good means that they are probably highly gifted, have put enormous amounts of effort in it since they were young and they probably also had a bit of luck.

For most of us that is not feasible. And we need something more realistic as there cannot be 7 billion people living from playing video games, or playing soccer or tennis.

But before I dive deeper into how to identify your passion let’s discuss why I think finding out your passion is important in your life.

Most people are not happy with their lives and the career they have. Why is that?

adventure climbMost feel that their work is not fulfilling them, for them their job is just a way to get a paycheck at the end of the month. They don’t like to do the job they are doing but they still do it because they need to pay the bills.

And than on the other side you have the people that are highly successful, make tons of money and genuinely enjoy what they are doing. They wake up every morning excited to do the work for that day, they don’t feel that tired when the finish work in the evening and are much happier in general.

What is the difference between this two types of people?

The first group is just doing their job and the second is living their passion. Now obviously there are different degrees of passion and there are many levels of disliking your job. Some people genuinely hate their work, some find it OK and some just straight love it, and there is an infinite amount of shades in between.

And some people even know what their passion is but they admit that their passion would never be able to pay for their bills, so they have no other option, and this is not that uncommon.

The thing is that in today’s world there is an infinite amount of possibilities how to turn your passion into your profession, you just need to have an open mind and maybe take some compromises.

If you like to play video games, maybe you could become a video game developer, video game designer or video game tester. Yes it is not as amusing as playing video games but it is close enough and some of this jobs can be extremely well paid.

Maybe you are really passionate about one of the top popular sports on the world?

One thing that is common  across every industry is that the better you are in something more money you can make. And let me tell you something, it is much easier to get good in something you are passionate about than getting good in something you hate doing.

Even the less pleasant chores become easier if the end result is something you are passionate about.

It is easier to get good in something you enjoy doing but it is probably the same for most other people in your field so you will have to get even better if you want to stand out of the crowd. The good thing about is that you are still doing something you love and this will give you more energy and you will fill a greater sense of accomplishment.

So yes you will have to put some sweat and hard work into it if you want to make it happen, but I guarantee you that it sure makes more sense than investing time into something you know you don’t want  to be doing your entire life and doesn’t make you happy.

I come from a software engineering background and I know many well paid engineers that work for banks (banks pay the highest rates) and I know first hand that they are not happy individuals. Even if their passion is software development, working in a corporate bank environment just crushes your soul. There probably are  rare exceptions who genuinely enjoy working for banks and big corporations but I haven’t met them yet.

So unless you enjoy at least a part of  what you are doing or is paid exceptionally well  and you know you will be doing it just for a limited amount of time, please don’t waste your time doing something you hate. Working in an environment like that produces stress and stress is  actually one of the bigger sources of different health issues.

What good is all this money if you get ill. Some of the people I know spend obscene amounts of money just to have that short period of happiness that they can’t find anywhere else. So the do the work they hate, to get the money they don’t actually need, just to spend it on things they  absolutely don’t need, to fill the void for a brief moment. Where is the logic here?

To get to the main point of this article. How to find out what you are good in, what your passion is and what would make you happy. Until recently my answer to this would be, “Ask yourself what you would do if you didn’t have to  work for money, what would you do if you had 10 mil on your bank account?”. While this is still valid and is definitely not wrong it still doesn’t help that much.

Another answer I had was, that whatever you do in your free time all the time even if you are tired should give you a close estimate at where your passion lies.

While both of this statements are valid they don’t help you figure out what your actual passion is. They are too vague and too broad. What if you are just watching TV shows all the time and you would keep watching them  even if you had 10 mil on your bank account?

This method fails in most scenarios and is not that helpful.

Eliminate what you are not passionate about and you will find what you ARE passionate about

There is no way to say what your passion is just by asking yourself, but there definitely is a way to tell what your passion is not. The only way to find out what your passion is is to eliminate what your passion is not. This is not a quick way but it is a sure way to get to your goal.You might be lucky and find your passion fast or you might need to try out several things before you identify what your passion is.

But from my experience this is the only way you will eventually get there.

If we look at it from another perspective. There are 100 stones and under one stone there lies hidden your passion. It is impossible to  figure out under which stone it is as you cannot see what is beneath it. Some stones might look more and some less prity. But you will never know until you turn the stone around. So the only logical way is that you have to turn around as many stones as you need to find it.

How do you know that you would like to do something until you tried it? But in most cases you can assess if you would not like to do something. For example I know that I could never be surgeon or dentist as I would find it very difficult to work with blood.

In order to find out who you really are you must remove everything who you are not, only then you will truly find yourself.

What are daily affirmations in Law of attraction? Daily affirmation is basically a self-talk, to condition our mind and belief system in such a way that the attraction of positive and good thought patterns becomes completely natural and automatic. Our brains are conditioned to think under certain patterns and if we want to change this patterns we need to train ourselves and constantly remind our brains how to think. If we don’t remind our brain how to think it will just go back to it’s comfortable patterns of thinking that it’s been doing all along and we really don’t want that.

You have to take control of your mind, think positive, and manifest the reality you desire and the daily affirmations ritual is just one of the tools that can help you achieve that.

The Law of attraction is very simple, you attract what you believe and repeating certain phrases empower your belief and also make you repeat and acknowledge what you want to achieve.

Whether you want to attract a general positive change or something more specific like love, health, business success, money, relationships and so on, it all depends on your belief system. If you have doubts this method will not work for you. You have to truly believe what you are saying and by saying it every day you are empowering your thoughts to manifest and create a better future for you.

When you try to think of your daily affirmation, try to focus on your desired end goal and not how to get there or the process. The universe already knows how to get there and it will let you know when the time is right. Don’t visualise a 5% increase in your salary, that is just a specific wish from you to get more money. What you should do is to visualise an abundant money supply and that should be your goal. Maybe the company you are currently working for is no good, maybe the universe has a higher calling for you. You have to let yourself be guided by the universe as it will lead you to the desired place you wish for.

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There is one more thing you have to master, when you are doing daily affirmations, and this is probably the most important thing of all. You have visualise your goal, you have to feel it, you have to embrace it completely like it’s already your reality. Don’t just wish for a nice car, try to vision yourself driving it, smelling it, visualise it clearly how you are sitting in it, how you are touching the steering wheel. The more real you can picture yourself in the car the stronger the impact it will have on you.

Why is it important to repeat this exercise every day?

It is just like riding a bike or a car. In the beginning it is really awkward and you are struggling. Once you repeat it often enough it becomes seamlessly and you are doing it without even being aware of it. Doing this affirmations on a subconscious level is what we want to achieve so that you are constantly repeating the positive things you want to achieve. As a direct result of this is also that your mind selectively rejects everything that is not inline with your desires or is negative in general. We condition our brain to be in a positive state of mind instead of a negative state that is harmful for you.

Here is a simple explanation how law of attraction works:

If you expect disappointments and believe life is supposed to be hard that’s exactly what you will experience.

If you expect only pleasant surprises and believe life can be easy and enjoyable that’s exactly what you will experience.

Remember this, the more positive and stronger your thoughts are, the more powerful your beliefs and actions will be…

And the results? You’ll attract happiness, health, success, wealth and prosperity in ways you never imagined before.

The other thing you have to realise is that this is not a magic pill and money will just start falling in your lap from the sky. The Universe will help you find the right way, but you still have to walk that way. Let me explain it to you with an example.

You are currently lost in a big maze and you have no idea how to get out of it. The Law of attraction helps you find the way out, but you will still have to walk out on your feet. You will not be just magically teleported out of the maze but you will not be lost anymore and that is a great advantage.

Here is a list of more than hundred daily affirmations for every aspect of your life:

 

Daily affirmations for mastering life:

My beliefs manifest my reality.

I’m the master of my life.

I have the power to create my reality.

I attract success into my life.

I use positive thinking and beliefs to manifest a positive life.

I attract into my life whatever I want.

Every day, in every way, I am getting better and better.

Life doesn’t happens TO me, but it happens FOR me.

 

Daily affirmations for money, finance and wealth:

My financial abundance overflows today.

Money flows freely and abundantly into my life.

I always have more money coming in than going out.

I feel good about the money that I spent.

My money is a source of good for myself and for others.

I feel good about money and I deserve it in my life.

I am thankful for the comfort and joy that money provides me.

I always have enough money for myself.

I release all my negative beliefs about money and invite wealth into my life.

Making money is good for me and for everyone in my life.

I clearly see opportunities to effortlessly make money.

I’m producing financial abundance doing what I love.

All my issues with wealth have disappeared.

Being wealthy gives me joy, happiness and peace of mind.

Money is constantly circulating in my life.

Money flows to me in avalanches of abundance.

I use money for good and I am grateful for my good and the riches of my mind.

Money flows to me as easily as the air I breathe.

I have a magnetic attraction to wealth.

I see myself living a life of abundance and wealth.

My income is growing higher and higher now.

 

Daily affirmations for health:

I am healthy.

I feel happy, healthy and fortunate.

I’m open to receive an abundance of health, wealth and happiness.

I am prosperous, healthy, happy and live in abundance.

Whatever I do, it always ends in amassing health, wealth and joy.

Every day in every way, my health is increasing.

Being healthy gives me joy, happiness and peace of mind.

I am filled with vitality, energy, and physical stamina.

I think, speak, and act nothing but perfect health.

I claim the healing power that expresses itself in me in all ways.

Nothing that is not of health and wholeness can get hold of me. I claim that good now in my life.

I am perfect, I am whole, I am healthy.

I breathe health – I breathe strength – I breathe vitality

I am health – I am strength – I am vitality

I have a beautiful, healthy, happy body.

I eat food that nourishes and energizes me.

I love food and food loves me.

I am radiating with powerful energy and vitality.

 

Other Law of attraction daily affirmations:

I can gracefully handle any situations in my life.

I feel safe and protected.

I believe in the law of attraction.

I have the power to manifest my dreams.

I believe deeply that I can achieve anything I desire.

I have unbreakable confidence in myself.

I have the power to act correctly in each moment.

I’m brave and confident.

I trust myself.

I’m appreciated and respected.

I’m prosperous and successful in my life.

I have everything that’s needed to fulfill my dreams.

I’m always present in the moment.

The presence of joy in my heart releases an abundance of good in my life.

I’m destined to be prosperous.

I’ve abundance to share and spare.

I’m surrounded by abundance.

My life is full of Joy.

I always get what I need, when I need it.

My world is filled with happiness.

My life is mine to create the way I wanted.

I allow myself to have more than I ever dreamed possible.

I’m known for my positive energy and abundant life style.

I’m surrounded by positive and happy people.

I appreciate what I already have.

I am grateful for what I already have.

I connect with my source and abundance comes to me effortlessly.

Miracles and positive experiences surrounds me wherever I go.

My life is filled with joy, success and abundance.

Wonderful things happens to me, for I live with an attitude of gratitude.

I’m worthy of all that my heart desires.

Excitement flows freely and abundantly into my life.

I will be productive and prosperous today.

My prosperity is unlimited, my success is unlimited now.

I know there is ample prosperity for all.

Perfect abundance is my chosen reality.

Everything I need comes to me easily and effortlessly.

I am destined to find prosperity in everything I do.

I am gracious for the blessings I have in my life.

I am free to do whatever I wish to do.

Today is filled with opportunity, and I will seize it.

I invite and allow good to come into my life.

I passionately live a life of abundance and success.

I joyfully accept blessing and enjoy abundance.

I’m grateful for every single moment in my life.

I’m consistently presented with new opportunity and success.

I deserve abundance and prosperity.

I know my value, my honor and worth.

I share all wealth and happiness that I receive.

I contribute a positive and influential gift to this planet.

I always attracts success and abundance like a magnet.

I listen to others with patience, compassion and understanding.

I celebrate life, love and abundance everyday. It comes to me right here and right now.

I’ve faith that I am being guided in ways that brings amazing results.

My greatest good is coming to me now.

I attract prosperity.

Wherever I go, I spread happiness, compassion and inspiration.

I can and will have more than I ever dreamed possible.

I now create my wonderful, ideal life.

I know I am abundant.

Every day in every way I am becoming more and more prosperous.

I see myself as wealthy, and that’s who I already am.

I am worthy of great success.

Thank you Universe for providing me everything I asked for.

When you are doing your daily affirmations, try to understand them, don’t just repeat them as empty words. Understand them, visualise them, feel them only than this will make an impact on your life.

Take care!

How do you know that Law of attraction is working out for you? What are the signs? Are there any signs at all? If I don’t see the signs, does it mean that it is not working or that I am doing something wrong?

This are the most common questions when people start to implement Law of attraction methods and techniques. I will try to answer them so this can be some sort of guideline for all of you.

I will start with the most common question which is:

What are the signs that the Law of attraction is working out for me?

First we must clarify if there even are any signs that law of attraction is working out for you. We must understand that not everyone experiences this process the same. Every person’s journey is different and everyone implements the techniques differently and deals with daily struggles different, so it only makes sense that the signs and experiences vary from one individual to another.

It would be great if there were these set, unmistakable signs that everyone could easily recognise, like cosmic notifications that your manifestation is on it’s way to manifest in your life. So you could feel comfortable that you are doing everything right and that the big turn around in your life is just to become true. The thing is that if you are truly in sync with the universe you will know, but you have just started transforming the way you think and you are most probably not there yet. There are signs, but we must listen to them and in order to listen and to hear we must be in sync with our selves and the universe and there is no manual for that. You will have to figure that out for yourself.

The other problem is that the changes don’t happen overnight. The entire process is gradual and subtle. It is like watching grass to grow. We all know that it is growing but if we try to see it grow we won’t see it. You notice the change once it is obvious but you cannot force yourself to see it immediately.

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Our brains are wired that we are always seek confirmation in what we are doing. We need to see some proof that what we are doing is working and we are not just spending time on something that is not working. And this is the biggest problem for many people as believing is the foundation of the entire process. You cannot go into this with an attitude “I will try it out if it works”. With a mindset like that you will definitely fail. The entire philosophy of the Law of attraction is that your thoughts become reality and what you think manifests for you. So if you start with doubts you are bound to fail as your doubts will manifest for you.

Now that we realised that not everything we experience is the same as other people on the same journey experience and that the entire process is complex and dependent on how we are dealing with it, we can list and explain the most common signs people are experiencing.

You will feel and be happier

Once things will start moving towards your desired state you will feel happier as you know that you are one step closer to your ultimate goal. When we feel good, or at least better, most of the time, we are aligned with all the things we want that will make us feel those same good feelings. We see the better part in everything, our way of thinking becomes more optimistic and that optimism attracts the good energy and feeds on the good energy.

Our state of mind and how we are feeling about ourselves and our surroundings determines everything. When we are able to start feeling better about getting what we want, the resistance that is blocking us diminishes, the trust builds up, the need to figure out ‘how’ is weakens, and that is the combination we need to achieve for our manifestation.

We might not be feeling good and in tune with the universe all the time, but we must observe our feelings and try to guide them in the right direction. Try to feel happy and see the positive side of everything. Even if something bad happens try to respond in a positive way. If someone is mean to you, try to understand that he or she probably has a really bad day and is behaving like that because he or she is unhappy. That has nothing to do with you and it really shouldn’t be the reason that you have a bad day now. If it’s raining enjoy the rain, if you are sweating enjoy the heat. Enjoy the little things we miss every day because we take them for granted. Once you realise the importance of how you feel and how that affects you life you will understand that negative emotions are only damaging you. We cannot control everything that happens to us but we can control how we react to the things that happen to us.

Everything is easier if we are feeling good. Even the smallest obstacle has the potential to stop us if we are not feeling good about ourselves. And we can move mountains if we are happy and self confident. This is a self-reinforcing cycle. The happier you are the better everything seems you make better progress, you become more successful and that makes you even happier. If you are feeling down, everything seems harder, you achieve less and that is bringing you down even more. And the easiest thing we can change in this cycle is the way we feel. You cannot become successful immediately so waiting for it may not be the best idea, but you can immediately change how you feel. It may not be the easiest thing to do, especially if you are having a bad period in your life, but believe me when I say that you can change the way you feel at any time and instantly and that will break the self-reinforcing downward spiral you are riding on. It is a well studied subject that you can measurably increase you pain threshold just by thinking on a happy moment or a happy place in your mind. People have withstood torture with this method. So believe me when I say you can change the way you feel right now.

You will think that the world is crumbling down on you

So you just had that amazing revelation, that you can change everything and bend reality all you have to do is just believe and it will happen. Than you have a bad day and everything seems to go against you and you start questioning everything. In order for things to change, things have to change and every change causes some noise. Don’t worry, this is just a sign that you are turning the ship around and that is why it is tilting, shaking and not moving anywhere.

All this negative energy was shaping your reality and now that you have ‘seen the light’ and changed direction, it all needs to come up to get you where you really want to be.

Regularly Seeing And Hearing About What You Want

All of a sudden the entire world is talking about the things that are close to manifest for you. You will see signs everywhere. Sometimes it will seem overwhelming but don’t be scared, this is just a sign you are moving in the right direction. One might say that everyone sees more of the things they are focusing on, but the experience get’s more intensive in the period of manifestation.

Almost there but not what you were asking for

You can finally see real progress and things are starting to manifest for you. You get a new job offer, new business opportunity, you find a great house where you want to live or you meet a wonderful person and you think to yourself, this is it, it is happening. But than you realise that the job is not so perfect, the business opportunity is not what you were looking for, that magical house is above you budget and mr. or mrs. Perfect is not so perfect. What now? Are you to picky? No, this is just the Universe giving you options and it is on you to decide what you want to do with them. Please don’t think, the Universe gave me this opportunity and I have to take it as this is my destiny. The universe gives you options and you should only follow what makes you feel right. If it doesn’t feel right, don’t go for it. Things like that just make it easier for you to decide and realise what is that you actually desire.

Final thoughts

I hope this post helped you understand things a bit better so you will have less doubts when things might not seem as they are. You must also understand that everything takes time. Rome wasn’t built in a day and so can you not expect the change to come over night. The Universe will guide you, you just have to let go of all fears, doubts and negative thoughts and good things will come to you.

First thing that you need to understand if you want to become a good leader is that Success or Disappointment is created more by the mental attitude than by the mental capability. There’s a valid reason that only 5% of people do good and 95% will not. That valid reason is not natural talent, money or “being at the right spot at the right time.” The reason is attitude. Only with a leader’s attitude can you get the actual outcome you will seek and keep your position as a leader.

Everything functions around the law of cause and effect. Achieving success is assured if we live in the proper way. Good attitude = Good result, fair attitude = fair outcome, and lousy attitude = lousy outcome. If you are not closing enough sales, keep on trying until you get the results you are looking for. If you find some good out of it, even if it’s just a lesson learned not to ever stop trying, your result will likely be that you’re obtaining some thing beneficial for your lost time.

All of us design our very own life based upon our attitude, and that decides life’s attitude towards us. Start with concentrating on getting an optimistic view of your self. Most people cannot give to other people what we do not have. We have been so familiar with ourselves that many of us become our personal worst type of critic. Once you achieve a goal, pat your self on the actual back and realize that not everyone can perform what you do. Many people are able, but don’t have the drive to take advantage of their own undeveloped leadership potential. The actual drive derives from understanding that you can do it because you possess a positive attitude.

If we find a person performing an outstanding job and acquiring outstanding results, you find a man or woman having a positive attitude of a leader. They each expect more good out of life than lousy, nonetheless they do expect to fall short in the process. If they didn’t, they wouldn’t be leaders and they would not allow every obstacle stop them from thinking optimistically. The environment is usually a mirror of our mental attitude. If we do not like what we see, we must improve our way of thinking before we can improve anything else.

The simplest way to practice developing an attitude of a leader will be by walking, acting and looking as if we are part of a group of positive thinkers. Actions trigger feelings, just as feelings trigger attitudes. Try to look for good and exciting aspects of something that may possibly bother or perhaps anger you. Life can be uninteresting and annoying only to those who are dull along with bad. When you can discover some thing interesting in whatever you see and everybody most people meet up with, life gets interesting and your attitude is going to modify. A person must look, act and feel successful before they will achieve success.
For your next 30 days, act toward the world by having an attitude of a leader which represents the kind of good results you desire to achieve. Should someone turns you down after a business briefing, simply just continue to the next realizing that you are getting closer to someone who will prefer to join you. Don’t burn bridges simply because even those who say “no” now may possibly say “yes” when they are ready. Treat everybody with admiration in addition to respect, just like you would want to be treated by them. People with positive attitudes naturally ascend to the top because they will eventually attract exactly what they get, regardless of the total number of times they be unsuccessful.

As we go through the leadership and development series, I will be going through all of the various mindsets, principles & habits of successful people, as well as the substantial skills you can cultivate so you can take what you learn here and use it out in the real world.

Leadership and Development Principle: The more we see, the more options are accessible to us.

Since the beginning, humanity has always been on a consistent journey to strengthen comprehension about our surroundings so we can make smarter decisions, we have even found ways to craft tools so we can catch a glimpse of more of what is available to us, from using hot-air balloons in the Civil War, to satellites used today. As technology has moved forward, so has the capability to see things from a different, elevated perspective.

Just like when you are fighting with a set of circumstances, simply taking a step back and observing the problem from another point of view can be enough to help change your belief to a higher state of mind. It’s challenging to find a way around a brick wall when it is literally 3 inches in front of your face. All you have to do, if it’s possible at the moment, back up from it. Detach yourself from the situation for a moment and let your mind rest & come up for air. Just allowing your mind to refresh will allow you to see all kinds of different possibilities that you couldn’t see before.

At the same time, using this simple leadership and development technique can also cause us to really think about what we’re really trying to accomplish, and possibly reassess if where we’re going is really a good place to be. This can be an a-ha moment that can help you correct course or move on to a more valuable goal.

Heroes become heroes because they learn to look at situations from an elevated point of view. This helps them to find new solutions to old problems, and alternative paths instead of dead ends. Do just this, and you will find a way to your destination where before there were only dead ends. There multiple paths to your goal. Through creativity, patience and persistence you will find a way to bring your goal into reality.

Leadership and Development Principle: Persistence Conquers All

“Never give in. Never. Never. Never. Never.” -Winston Churchill

Make an unswerving choice to refuse to cede. When you keep going no matter what, life has a tendency to celebrate our decision by meeting us halfway. New opportunities seem to appear out of thin air. Things we never saw before spring to life.

You may possibly get refused 1,009 times, but if you stay unswerving in your vision, your goals & dreams ultimately someone will say yes to you. and then another, and then another. You can win merely by refusing to give in.

You may have a multimillion dollar thought floating around between your ears, and what will at the end of the day make that idea come to life is your resolved determination to see your dream through to the end, and keep working until you get what you want. Sheer determination makes or breaks us.

What will you see when you learn to see through the eyes of heroes?

Leadership and development is absolutely crucial in developing the mindset and habits of a successful leader, regardless of what field you choose to devote yourself. It can also be a daunting task if you don’t know where you need to start to receive this training. Click on the following link to gain full access to a leadership and development system complete with a step by step method of generating leads for your new business.

Do you have what it takes to become a leader?

Have you heard that leaders are made NOT born? Well it’s true. You have seen instances where people step up to the plate and take charge in an unexpected way. You’ve seen people improve to the top out of NOWHERE. If you fancy to become a leader and you aren’t already one, don’t worry, you can do it. Before we go on with, if you are in a “leadership position” that DOES NOT mean you are a leader, YET. There are some things you will need to become versed in before you are exactly a leader. Dale Carnegie broke it down into a few easy categories.

Fundamental Techniques in Handling People
Ways to Make People Like You
Ways to Win People To Your Way of Thinking
Become A LeaderIf you fancy to become a leader you must learn how to do each one of the categories. We’ll break it down for you so by the end of this paper you will apprehend what it takes to become a leader. (It won’t make you a leader, but it will show you what you have to do to become a leader)

I WANT TO BECOME A LEADER! What do I do?

A true leader knows how to take care of people in ANY situation. If someone were to do something that you wanted them to do BUT they didn’t do it completely right, how would you handle it? Would you blame, disapprove, or grumble about? If so then you must to become versed to NOT do those things. A true leader gives honest and sincere appreciation. Leaders DON’T chide, disapprove, or grumble about. Using the same scenario, if someone did something I wanted them to do but not 100% correct, I would recite how well they did one piece of it but they could have made better on another part. The code is to NOT look all on their faults. I mean after all we are human. Leaders handle people in a way where they WANT to do what you say. You shouldn’t have to force them to do anything.

You’ve probably observed that when a “leader” walks into a room, EVERYONE tends to be pulled towards them. That is because leaders have such an attractiveness about them that people will like them right away. Thats why you need apprehend how to make people adore you. In order to do that you have to become Sincerely interested in the other person. If you aren’t kind they will be able to see right through it. Distinguish how leaders are always smiling? Thats because no one likes being around a bunch of negative people. Leaders are AMAZING listeners, so if you are to become a leader, Begin LISTENING. I’ve always heard that we have two ears and one mouth for a reason. We should use them accurately. When you talk to a leader you will perceive how important you appear. That is because if you didn’t feel important, what they have to say would mean NOTHING to you. To become a leader we must peak peoples’ interests by talking about what they desire to talk about!

If I were to argue with a “leader” they would NEVER tell me I’m not right or that my point of view is dumb. EVERYONE is entitled to their own point of view. Just because it doesn’t match up with what yours is doesn’t make it awful. Leaders will be the FIRST to acknowledge they have made a mistake. Never attempt to blame the other person. That will just make people dislike you. When you ask someone a question and they answer “yes” a lot, the result is usually a positive one. Ask the other person “yes” questions. Listen more than you talk. If I want to become a leader I will “SEEK TO UNDERSTAND BEFORE SEEKING TO BE UNDERSTOOD”. I can’t emphasize that enough.

If you want to evolve people without offending them you must give acclamation and honest recognition of worth and talk about peoples’ mistakes indirectly. If you have become a leader you would ask instead of tell. You would also praise EVERY advancement and refrain or stay away from pointing out mistakes. A leader encourages others that they can do fitter. They would never bring someone down! If I were to want you to do something I would make you happy about what I suggest by showing you how it can benefit YOU! I would NOT say “Do this so I look good” I would say “You can do that so you have an opportunity to go further” ENCOURAGE! ENCOURAGE! ENCOURAGE!

Become A Leader
Now its up to you whether you become a leader or not. I would recommend reading Dale Carnegies softcover How To Win Friends and Influence People! It is THE book about leadership. Don’t worry you can become a leader in no time!

5 Rules For The Leader To Follow

1. The Leader must aspire for more than what they have!

What is the point of entering the internet marketing scene if you don’t want to improve you standard of living, make life long friends and grow as a person? If you don’t want these 3, then don’t bother. If you don’t have a dream of what you would like your life to be like, get 1! Dreams are the beginnings of success.

2. Your mindset must be superior to your subordinates.

Your subordinates will constantly study you. They will train to be like you, or be better than you. You need to be level headed at all times. You need to portray a stable footing, even when you have no idea what is going on. Your confidence will inspire respect amongst your team and give you a boost. Never be negative. Even when you are administering some constructive criticism, always end on a positive note.

3. Always take responsibility for any mistakes you make.

Honesty is a quality that is second to none. If you are always honest with your subordinates and impress upon them the fact you always want them to be honest with you, you can often head off any problems before they get to big. If something doesn’t go as planned then sit down and go through what you did and look for ways to improve it. In the military they use what is known as an after action review. Everyone brings up things they should sustain, things to improve and ways to fix it.

4. Make a Decision!

In the choice between doing nothing or doing something, doing something always wins. Being indecisive is a major pitfall that will bring anyone in a supervisor position unstuck. People loose confidence with you if you are unable to make a decision, or become flustered when you don’t know what to do. If you don’t know what to do, ask your supervisor. They may have had relevant experiences that they can share with you to help you out! In business you need to be willing to take risks and chances. Sometimes if you remain stagnant, your competition will take advantage of this and you will come off second best.

5. Put your subordinates first!

If you are selfish and won’t help your own team you wont make a single cent! Every day, go out of your way to help those in your downline! They are the ones that will bring you success, every time you help them, you are helping yourself. Sometimes we all get greedy and don’t want to share something because of fear that we will no longer benefit from it. This is the worst possible attitude to have! Share everything you learn. Treat your people as they deserve to be treated and this alone will skyrocket your profits.